Those parents were my sisters good friends. Their boy has been in and out of therapy for years - his mother was a dedicated teacher and well aware of her sons problems. She tried for many years to help. America has its problems, no doubt. But when its a family you know...its no longer about the place but the people. The little town where my family lives is a quiet and safe place, just like most places in Bosnia. One thing I do agree with - the culture of violence in America is startling. Here really isn\'t that much better though if you think about it. hmmm, ne znam.